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Old 03-30-2013, 06:53 PM   #1
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Old 03-30-2013, 08:06 PM   #2
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So sorry to hear brother. Let me know if you need anything. On a lighter note, get out there and start fishing again. There's plenty of fish in the sea
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Old 03-30-2013, 08:28 PM   #3
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Thanks man.
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Old 03-30-2013, 08:51 PM   #4
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I've been through as I'm sure everyone here has. Surround yourself with good people, smoke good cigars and enjoy your freedom. In time the memories will fade and new ones will come about. NL is here for ya!
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Old 03-30-2013, 09:22 PM   #5
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It's tough going through a divorce. It will get better, it just takes time. Hang in there and thing good throughts.
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Old 03-30-2013, 10:03 PM   #6
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Sorry to hear this tony. Keep your head up and keep moving foward buddy
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Old 03-30-2013, 10:07 PM   #7
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Tmie for some strange!
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Old 03-30-2013, 11:06 PM   #8
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you know the screwed up thing for today is the camaro broke down.
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Old 03-31-2013, 10:30 AM   #9
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The car is easier to fix I assure you...
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Old 03-31-2013, 10:43 AM   #10
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It's her loss Tony, stay positive.
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Old 03-31-2013, 10:52 AM   #11
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Sorry to hear this man, def sucks. The only women at cfest will be the models, you'd be better off just hanging with the boys and having a great time. There will be plenty of time to find women, you're a young guy. They just complicate things anyways, better to let things just fall into place. I found my wife when i'd given up and quit looking. Lets just drink and smoke great cigars and not worry about anything.
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Old 03-31-2013, 11:29 AM   #12
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Sorry to hear this man, def sucks. The only women at cfest will be the models, you'd be better off just hanging with the boys and having a great time. There will be plenty of time to find women, you're a young guy. They just complicate things anyways, better to let things just fall into place. I found my wife when i'd given up and quit looking. Lets just drink and smoke great cigars and not worry about anything.

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Old 03-31-2013, 12:39 PM   #13
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Sorry to hear Tony, keep your head up, and you KNOW everyone here will be there for you when you need it. I went through a similar thing (not divorce... but a long time girlfriend who left me for a church pastor... actually started talking to him while we were still dating)... everyone here was great and gave some good advice! Still lots of life to live and you should live it to the fullest not worrying about women (when I stopped looking so hard, thats when I found my current girl... who is 10000x better than the last)
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Old 03-31-2013, 08:55 PM   #14
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I hear what you all are saying.
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Old 04-01-2013, 08:37 AM   #15
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I'm sorry Tony. I know how this sucks. But like everything else it passes and when we look back invariably we all agree it was the best thing that could have happened. You'll meet someone better in all regards and ultimately be happier. It just takes a little time.
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Old 04-01-2013, 08:39 AM   #16
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Sorry to hear..... Hang in there, things will get better
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Old 04-01-2013, 09:10 AM   #17
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Sorry to hear this, I'm not going to repeat what everyone else has already said, but I will say look at this differently...if things were going south then look at this as a new door opening to a new adventure........accept it and see what happens....it could be a better thing in the long run......keep your head up and surround your self with positive friends....good luck brother.
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Old 04-02-2013, 02:09 PM   #18
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Old 04-02-2013, 05:48 PM   #19
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That sucks to hear. I finished my big D 2-3 years ago when she ended up going flying monkeys sparkly pants bat guano effen crazy. Different circumstances but I feel better, blood pressure down, and I think my hair is growing back. Hang in there!
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Old 04-02-2013, 08:53 PM   #20
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I figure I'd show you want my class did to another class while I was there. to go on a lighter note.
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Old 04-03-2013, 08:26 AM   #21
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Tony... as long as it works out the way you want it to.
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Old 04-06-2013, 08:41 AM   #22
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Good luck bro--- and the balloons are funny as hell
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Wow bro sorry to hear this, if you need anything you call bro... I hope everything works out, I will keep you in my prayers bro!
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Old 04-08-2013, 04:45 PM   #24
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Best of luck! Been there! But seriously no time needed. Just new P!
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Old 04-24-2013, 11:47 PM   #25
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Sorry guys venting here because I'm staying off facebook right now. but this is how I'm feeling right now.

http://youtu.be/57DMwiGdisY
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Old 04-25-2013, 01:15 AM   #26
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Old 04-25-2013, 07:56 AM   #27
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If songs help, give this a shot. May not be your cup of tea but I was in the same position as you once. I played this on repeat. Over and over
http://youtu.be/qCwFUgI96XQ

(Where have you gone?)
How does time pass by so fast?
Seems like yesterday
You and I,
We Could Relate
But you know how things change. (Things change!)
But is it me, or is it time?
Now I'm stuck looking back
On something that I'll
Never have again.

All this time with regret,
(I Just Lost Today!)
Worrying about yesterday.
All this time with regret,
(I Just Lost Today!)
Worrying about yesterday.

Can't live, can't live, can't live in
(Yesterday!)
Can't live in yesterday.
Can't live in yesterday.
Can't live -- in yesterday...

All this time with regret,
(I lost today!)
Worrying about yesterday
(I lost today!)
And no, I'll never forget about you.
(I lost today!)
I just came to terms that I've lost you

(On with my life!)
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Old 04-29-2013, 09:42 PM   #28
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The first time I told you I loved you I was drunk. I meant every word. I just didn't want you to hear it yet. I fell so hard it hurt. You were not what I was expecting. You were everything I had ever wanted. I am sorry for being an ass since then. I miss you so much. I have failed at being your husband. I wish I could make it up to you and show you how I truly feel. But there is so much bull**** between us I think I will never be able to show you. I am so sorry. You were the love of my life.
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Old 04-30-2013, 08:55 AM   #29
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now smoke a cigar!
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Sorry to hear this bro, it breaks my heart, I don't know the situation know one here does except the two of you! I do know that if it is ment to be it will work out. Have you guys talk about marriage consuling? I don't know if it would be a consideration or not? Just a thought, we did it before we got married per the church's request to be able to get married at that church. And I believe it was a good thing for us. Know this bro, I love ya as a bro, if you need anything I am here, you have my cell number, Pm's here, Facebook, google+, so you can contact me anytime of the day no matter how late it where I am we can talk. I know the heartache you are going thru, I have been thru it, and felt like I was going to die. Then a few years later I met my wife, and found true happiness. But it took a few years to get over the first! Again bro you need anything you holler!
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